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LIGHT WARRIOR WISDOM Mistake # 13 People pleasing

Welcome to another video of the Light Warrior Wisdom series!

Today we are going to talk about a new topic: people pleasing.
Because light warriors are usually very sensitive people, they feel other people’s emotions very easily and, as a former Empath i was very sensitive to sadness, anger. If i thought for a moment that i would have say “NO” to another person, i would have felt so bad about the emotions they were about to feel, after me not agreeing with them, that I would have done whatever it took to make them feel better.

The reason is that we feel so deeply and we don’t want to hurt other people or make them feel bad.

But here’s the thing: if you say YES when you mean NO it means that you are not brave enough to be truly honest and authentic.

If whoever’s mission is to make the world a better place, we do need to be authentic and honest. Blame or complain about other’s being dishonest.

What we are really doing here is not because we are trying to be nice, but we don’t want to have a reaction from them and we then have to deal with it.

So this becomes a selfish reason not to say NO at the right time!

So it’s ok for you to feel that stuff and give yourself permission to say NO when it is right for you to do so. Living a healthy life, a better divine living and have healthy boundaries means that you have to get rid of this fear of other people’s reactions and start doing what’s best for you. It means to be totally responsible for my life and my choices.

It is so awesome to be and feel fully honest and authentic!

Being a people pleaser doesn’t mean we are eventually making other people happy, but we certaintely making ourselves miserable.

Check my website karenkan.com if you want to talk to me and we can discuss about where your life is right now and what are your goals.

By for now.

Dr. Karen Kan

Karen Kan
drkaren@karenkan.com
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